Counseling One Another

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Counseling One Another

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Paul Tautges
Cornerstone Community Church
1400 Lander Rd.
Mayfield Heights, OH 44124


  1. your link to “HELP! Want to Change” is down. Is the booklet still available?

    • Thanks, Tim. The link has been corrected. And the book IS available even though Amazon can’t seem to keep it in stock!

  2. Hi Mr. Taugtes, Do you have an article on 2 Cor. 6:14 with regards to marriage w/believer and an unbeliever?

  3. Thank you!!!

  4. I can’t begin to express to you how excited I was to come across your post, “37 Ways to Love One Another.” My husband and I applied the “one anothers” to our marriage and has transformed our family! Check out our blog
    This is a message that should be taught in all churches. I just ordered your book and I can’t wait to read it! May God continue to bless you and your family.

  5. I believe when God commanded us to love one another he gave us the “one anothers” to love one another with. I believe II John verse 6 confirms this. What do you think?

  6. Hi, I am a 32 year old felmale with BPD. It is a hopeless and helpless feeling/label to live with mostly because “the world” says there is no cure…But I am a Christian and know that “with God all things are possible” and that “He is faithful to finish the good work He has started in me.” I say those things in faith, not because I’m experiencing any relief yet…I am torn between clinical help. such as DBT(Dialectical Behavior Therapy) and trusting God. I feel that if I do this DBT I will be “doing so in my own strength” instead of relying on God to heal me but I need guidance, lots of it. I don’t want to hurt people anymore…it’s not fair to them nor is it God’s plan for me. I take absolute responsibilty for my actions and always feel complete remorse, even depression after and “episode.” And yes I have had a hard life but I’m done playing the victim. I have seen on several posts the term CBT or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Can someone please tell me the difference between CBT and DBT as far as therapy goes. And also from a christian standpoint, is it wrong to seek help that way?? I am torn but desperate to beat this thing! Please help…

  7. Hi, I just wanted to leave a brief comment b/c I was so blessed by some of the resources I found on this site. Thank you and many God continue to bless you (I know He already is)! The Lord used this platform to enlighten me… as a result i can see some truths i was blind to. I have repented, and I am free in the name of Jesus! Thank you again:)

  8. Hello Paul,
    My husband Anthony & I are lead pastors at a 1-year, 6 month local church plant here in the Hampton Roads region of Virginia. Your blog article, “8 Responsibilities of Church Members to their Leaders” and a couple of others are written in the same spirit that we desire to disciple men unto Christ. Simply amazing, biblically accurate and encourage the “building of Believers.” Do we need permission from you to use that article and the others as part of our New Partners class? We excercize the greatest of integrity regarding advancing God’s Kingdom & that includes unto one another. We would use them as handouts only.

    Our ministry is called The Life Worship Center International (TLWCI). We are currently on Facebook and Instagram with a website pending. Looking forward to hearing from you

    • Hi Portia,
      Thanks for your encouraging words. You are free to use the articles provided you note on the article their original source. Thanks.

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