Is Low Self-Esteem Our Problem?

by Paul Tautges | May 23, 2023 10:30 am

Up until the twentieth century, traditional cultures (and this is still true of most cultures in the world) always believed that too high a view of yourself was the root cause of all the evil in the world. What is the reason for most of the crime and violence in the world? Why are people abused? Why are people cruel? Why do people do the bad things they do? Traditionally, the answer was hubris – the Greek word meaning pride or too high a view of yourself. Traditionally, that was the reason given for why people misbehave. But, in our modern western culture, we I have developed an utterly opposite cultural consensus. The basis of contemporary education, the way we treat incarcerated prisoners, the foundation of most modern legislation and the starting point for modern counselling is exactly the opposite of the traditional consensus. Our belief today – and it is deeply rooted in everything is that people misbehave for lack of self-esteem and because they have too low a view of themselves. For example, the reason husbands beat their wives and the reason people are criminals is because they have too low a view of themselves. People used to think it was because they had too high a view of themselves and had too much selfesteem. Now we say it because we have too little self-esteem.

Do you want to grow in biblical humility? Read: The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness[1]

Endnotes:
  1. The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness: https://us.10ofthose.com/product/9781906173418/the-freedom-of-self-forgetfulness-paperback

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