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April 20, 2015
by Paul Tautges
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How Deep the Father’s Love for…Me

The Holy Spirit often leads me to use hymns for the purpose of self-counseling. Today, I’m counseling myself with the lyrics of “How Deep the Father’s Love for Us.” But, since this is self-counseling, I change “Us” to “Me” for the purpose of meditation and personal application–keeping myself in the love of God (Jude 21).

How deep the Father’s love for us,
How vast beyond all measure
That He should give His only Son
To make a wretch His treasure

How great the pain of searing loss,
The Father turns His face away
As wounds which mar the chosen One,
Bring many sons to glory

Behold the Man upon a cross,
My sin upon His shoulders
Ashamed I hear my mocking voice,
Call out among the scoffers

It was my sin that held Him there
Until it was accomplished
His dying breath has brought me life
I know that it is finished

I will not boast in anything
No gifts, no power, no wisdom
But I will boast in Jesus Christ
His death and resurrection

Why should I gain from His reward?
I cannot give an answer
But this I know with all my heart
His wounds have paid my ransom

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April 13, 2015
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Sovereign Over Us

No matter what valley the Lord is taking, or has taken, you through, let your heart and mind be counseled by the Spirit-filled lyrics of this song. Don’t be surprised if the refrain brings you to tears.

There is strength within the sorrow
There is beauty in our tears
And You meet us in our mourning
With a love that casts out fear
You are working in our waiting
You’re sanctifying us
When beyond our understanding
You’re teaching us to trust

Your plans are still to prosper
You have not forgotten us
You’re with us in the fire and the flood
You’re faithful forever
Perfect in love
You are sovereign over us

You are wisdom unimagined
Who could understand Your ways
Reigning high above the Heavens
Reaching down in endless grace
You’re the lifter of the lowly
Compassionate and kind
You surround and You uphold me
And Your promises are my delight

Your plans are still to prosper
You have not forgotten us
You’re with us in the fire and the flood
You’re faithful forever
Perfect in love
You are sovereign over us

Even what the enemy means for evil
You turn it for our good
You turn it for our good and for Your glory
Even in the valley, You are faithful
You’re working for our good
You’re working for our good and for Your glory

Your plans are still to prosper
You have not forgotten us
You’re with us in the fire and the flood
You’re faithful forever
Perfect in love
You are sovereign over us

[Listen to this song here.]

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April 3, 2015
by Paul Tautges
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Why Did God Kill Jesus?

When the Old Testament prophet Isaiah predicted the suffering of Messiah he said, “But the Lord was pleased to crush Him, putting Him to grief” (53:10). Why? Why would God the Father be pleased to kill His only begotten Son? The verse goes on to answer that question, “If He would render Himself as a guilt offering.” God was pleased with the obedience of Jesus and the price He willingly paid for the guilt of our sin.

  • God was pleased to display His love for us.

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8). The required payment for sin is death. Jesus paid that price by dying on the cross and enduring God’s wrath against our sin.

  • God was pleased to raise His Son from the dead.

On the cross Jesus cried, “It is finished.” The debt for sin was paid in full. Three days later, He rose from the dead to prove it. He now lives, and offers eternal life to those who will repent and trust Him. “If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you shall be saved; for with the heart man believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation” (Rom 10:9-10).

Have you placed the eternal well-being of your soul into the hands of God by trusting in Jesus? If not, cry out to Him today. Jesus said, “whoever comes to me I will never cast out” (John 6:37).

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April 1, 2015
by Paul Tautges
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The Triune God Hears and Knows

In prayer we tell God nothing He does not already know. Instead, our prayers acknowledge our awareness of something He has always known and that we regularly forget—that we need Him and cannot live without Him. We need understand more about this God to whom we pray and on whom we depend. Our God is triune, a unity of three persons, with each person playing a role in our every act of prayer.

Father. Prayer touches the tenderness of the heavenly Father’s heart like nothing else, bringing him delight as he comes to the aid of his children (Matthew 7:11).

Son. Each time we pray we demonstrate our dependence on Jesus Christ, the spotless Lamb of God, who is the way, truth, and life—the only way to the Father (John 14:6).

Spirit. The Holy Spirit carries our prayers to the Father’s throne of grace, interpreting our heart’s unutterable longings (Romans 8:26). This is the God who knows us and our struggles far better than we do ourselves.

Today, what burdens do you carry on your heart and mind? Know that God the Father of the Lord Jesus Christ hears you when you cry out to Him, the Son of God mediates for sinners who believe in Him as their Lord and Savior, and the Holy Spirit translates your heart’s cry according to the will of God.

(Excerpted from Brass Heavens: Reasons for Unanswered Prayer)

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March 30, 2015
by Paul Tautges
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10 Ways to Hate People – Expanded

Earlier this month, David Murray posted a list entitled 10 Ways to Hate People. The list struck me, especially since these sins are all too common among those who profess to know Jesus Christ. The list has come back to my mind a number of times. Therefore, I decided to expand on David’s list simply by adding a few Scriptural supports, which drive the truths deeper into our hearts. May the Lord truly work His transforming grace in each of us so that we will practice the better way, the loving life!

  1. Grudge their success.  “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy” (1 Corinthians 13:4). “Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another” (Galatians 5:26).
  2. Blacken their name.  “A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, and favor is better than silver or gold” (Proverbs 22:1). The one who conceals hatred has lying lips, and whoever utters slander is a fool” (Proverbs 10:18). Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice” (Ephesians 4:31).
  3. Desire their failure. “But do not gloat over the day of your brother in the day of his misfortune” (Obadiah 1:12).
  4. Ignore their graces and gifts. “For the body does not consist of one member but of many….The eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I have no need of you,’ nor again the head to the feet, ‘I have no need of you.’ On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable,  and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together” (1 Corinthians 12:14, 21-26).
  5. Suspect their motives.  Biblical love “always trusts” (NIV) or “believes all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7). “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets” (Matthew 7:12).
  6. Rejoice when they fall or fail.  Love “does not rejoice at wrongdoing” (1 Corinthians 13:6). Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep” (Romans 12:15).
  7. Refuse their confession.  “Then Peter came up and said to him, ‘Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.’ [Read the full context and Jesus’ terrifying warning in Matthew 18:21-35]. For a similar warning, read Matthew 6:14-15. Finally, read Matthew 5:21-26, and consider how “the silent treatment” is a manifestation of deep anger, hatred, and murder of the heart.
  8. Highlight only their defects.  Even though the apostle could have chosen to write only of the Corinthians’ errors and sinful ways, he chose the road of love instead, which highlighted the evidences of grace in them. “I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge—even as the testimony about Christ was confirmed among you—so that you are not lacking in any gift, as you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 1:4-8). For more on this topic, read Sam Crabtree’s excellent book Practicing Affirmation.
  9. Despise their callings and roles:  “We ask you, brothers, to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, and to esteem them very highly in love because of their work” (1 Thessalonians 5:12-13).
  10. Take vengeance upon them:  “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord’” (Romans 12:9). “Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all” (Romans 12:17-18).

If we are honest, each and every one of us is guilty of having some hate in our hearts, at least at times. Let us repent, today, ask the Lord to fill our hearts with the love of Christ, and actively put on love (Colossians 3:14). Jesus died in our place and rose from the dead in order that we may no longer live for ourselves, but for Him (2 Corinthians 5:15).

Consider one final, sober warning from the apostle John: “At the same time, it is a new commandment that I am writing to you, which is true in him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining. Whoever says he is in the light and hates his brother is still in darkness. Whoever loves his brother abides in the light, and in him there is no cause for stumbling” (1 John 2:8-10).

RELATED POST: 37 Ways to Love One Another

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March 23, 2015
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I Shall Walk in a Wide Place

“I shall walk in a wide place, for I have sought your precepts” (Psalm 119:45).

This verse struck me a couple weeks back when I was working through Psalm 119. “What does the phrase ‘walk in a wide place’ mean,” I asked. In the margin of the ESV, Proverbs 4:12 is noted as a cross reference: “When you walk, your step will not be hampered, and if you run, you will not stumble.” Here’s my conclusion, what I wrote in my journal.

To walk in a wide place appears to mean that the way of wisdom—the way of the Word—is the way of God’s blessing. Not that God’s way does not include many, many difficulties (Jesus said, “Hard is the way…”), but when God opens a door, He opens it wide; He does not merely crack it open. Instead, He throws it open. God’s sovereignty is over the open and closed doors (Revelations 3:7). When God throws open the door of His will in our lives, it will seem plain, obvious, and even easy to walk right through to the other side—by faith. That seems to be what walking “in a wide place” means.

Lord, cultivate the discipline of obedience more consistently in my life so that I may walk in a wide place.

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March 19, 2015
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The Test of Trials – Part 4

In the past few posts, we’ve been walking through James 1:2-12 and learning how God uses trials to test and grow our faith in order to lead us to greater fruitfulness. First, James taught us that trials test our posture, that is, our faith-response and countenance in the face of suffering. Second, we learned that trials test our prayers; they lead us to a deeper state of God-dependency in which we cry out to Him for wisdom. Third, trials test our priorities; they force us to make decisions concerning what we really are living for, what we are investing our lives in. Do we live for God, or the material world? Are we truly losing our life in order to find it again (Matthew 10:39)? Today, and finally, we learn that trials test the level of our perseverance. In one way, we come full circle from where we began. Trials train us in endurance and, in the end, we persevere and are blessed by God.

TRIALS TEST OUR PERSEVERANCE (v. 12)

“Blessed is a man who perseveres under trial” means happy is the man who perseveres. The word “man” is used in the general sense (like v. 8), that is, of man or woman. Why is the persevering believer blessed? For “once he has been approved [by God] “he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.”

  • Perseverance is proof of genuine life

Let me clear. Perseverance under trial does not earn us eternal life, but it is proof that our faith is authentic, that we possess the real thing. Jesus taught concerning the end times, “Because lawlessness is increased, most people’s love will grow cold. But the one who endures to the end, he will be saved” (Matthew 24:12-13). Unfortunately, not all who possess Christ will endure to the end. Some will be like the seed that fell on the rocky soil. It sprouted quickly and withered away.

The one on whom seed was sown on the rocky places, this is the man who hears the word and immediately receives it with joy; yet he has no firm root in himself, but is only temporary, and when affliction or persecution arises because of the word, immediately he falls away. – Matthew 13:20-21

Perseverance in the faith is evidence a person has truly been born again.

  • Perseverance and joy are linked together

As we learn to count it all joy when we encounter various trials, one immeasurable blessing is the endurance of faith that results. This is perseverance being fed by joy. However, the opposite is also true. As we learn to persevere in trial, the Holy Spirit fills our hearts with true joy and a love for the Lord that does not diminish, but grows even deeper. As D. Edmond Hiebert writes, “Falling into various trials can be considered ‘pure joy’ only when those trials are effectively endured.”

This is God’s verdict! The man or woman who perseveres under trial and submits to whatever God wants to teach him, or her, through that suffering will in the end profit from it. But the profit will be spiritual, not material. It will be spiritual maturity, Christ-likeness, and growth in love, hope, and grace.

And not only this, but we also exult in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope; and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. – Romans 5:3-5

What is the reward for perseverance in trials? At the Judgment Seat of Christ, the one who perseveres “will receive the crown of life.” God is the potter; we are the clay. Let us submit to the Master Potter so that He may make us into a beautiful vessel for His use and for His glory.

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March 16, 2015
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The Test of Trials – Part 3

The Bible indicates that a person’s attitude toward material possessions is a reflector of his true spiritual condition. For example, when Jesus challenged the rich young ruler to leave his wealth and follow Him, the man “became very sad, for he was extremely rich” (Luke 18:23). Luke goes on to say, “And Jesus looked at him and said, ‘How hard it is for those who are wealthy to enter the kingdom of God!’” (Luke 18:24). The abundance of material riches often keeps a person from sensing their spiritual bankruptcy which, in turn, leaves them unwilling to run to Christ for the gift of righteousness they need in order to be justified before God.

In light of this, therefore, one rarely-recognized benefit of trials is that they test what a person is really living for; they clarify a person’s true priorities, not the ones they may only imagine are theirs. And a very common form of trials is that which is related to material riches— whether you have them or you don’t. What James does in the next few verses is present a contrast in the form of a riddle, a contrast between the “poor rich” man and the “rich poor” man (Kent Hughes). He says it this way:

Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation, 10 and the rich in his humiliation, because like a flower of the grass he will pass away. 11 For the sun rises with its scorching heat and withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beauty perishes. So also will the rich man fade away in the midst of his pursuits.

In two earlier posts, we’ve seen that trials test our posture and our prayers. Now we see how they also test our priorities; our relationship to wealth tests our values.

TRIALS TEST OUR PRIORITIES (vv. 9-11)

Both the poor and the rich are tested by God. God tests us so that we learn to glory in what matters most because He designed us to be driven by what we treasure: “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:21).

  • The materially poor believer should glory in spiritual riches (v. 9)

The “lowly brother” is the poor Christian. In light of being a child of the King of heaven, he ought to “boast in his high exaltation.” He should take rightful pride in his high position in Christ. The apostle Paul describes the high position of every believer in Ephesians 2:4-7.

But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved— and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.

He who is materially poor, now, will not in the end be if indeed he is spiritually rich in Jesus. If the trials of life have left you with financial loss, but you also know that you possess Christ and He possesses you, then glory in that; glory in God and His great love for you. Meditate on what you once were—dead in sin—and what you are now—alive in Christ—and the glorious position of already being seated with Him in heaven.

  • The materially rich believer should humble himself before God and others (vv. 10-11)

The “rich” man in the text is the rich believer. The wealthy Christian should glory “in his humiliation,” that is, he should realize that all of his riches are nothing before God and one day they will perish “because like a flower of the grass he will pass away.” He who is rich now will be poor in the end if he treasures his possessions more than he treasures Christ.

Earthly riches are temporary; they make themselves wings and fly away (Proverbs 23:50. Wealth is dangerous and the love of it leads many astray (1 Timothy 6:9-10). Therefore, James is teaching the wealthy Christian that his riches will pass away, too. The reason James places his warning where he does in his letter is because he will revisit the matter of riches and challenge believers to demonstrate true Christianity by how they use their riches to care for one another in the body of Christ. He will present the love of the brethren, specifically meeting their material needs, as a test of genuine saving faith, as John does in his letter (1 John 3:16-18).

So, both the poor man and the rich man have a trial to face. As it says in Proverbs, one faces the temptation to steal while the other faces the temptation to forsake God because of a sense of self-sufficiency: “Two things I asked of You, do not refuse me before I die: keep deception and lies far from me, give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with the food that is my portion, that I not be full and deny You and say, ‘Who is the LORD?’ Or that I not be in want and steal, and profane the name of my God” (Proverbs 30:7-9).

So, whether you are rich or poor, glory in Christ. He alone is worthy of being our greatest treasure.

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March 12, 2015
by Paul Tautges
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60 Ways the Inerrant Word Blesses Us

Psalm 119 has been a personal favorite of mine since the early days of my Christian life, studying it was instrumental to my growth. Then, while helping to plant a church in Kansas in the late 1980’s, the Psalm became my choice for the first adult Sunday School class we offered. Working through the Psalm eight verses at a time with fellow brothers and sisters in Christ blessed my soul.

Therefore, when Mark Dever publicly read Psalm 119 and preached from it last week at the Inerrancy Summit it was a special blessing to me. In his sermon, Mark challenged his listeners to work through the Psalm and note the ways the Word blesses us. So, I’ve spent my devotional times this past week mining the Psalm, doing what Mark exhorted, and now I’m sharing my findings with you.

Open your Bible to Psalm 119 and work through this list in your personal devotional time, or your small group. See if you find any more blessings that I missed.

The inerrant Word of God…

  1. Shows us how to keep our heart and way blameless (1, 3, 80)
  2. Guides our wholehearted pursuit of God (2, 10, 145, 148)
  3. Guards us from the shame of sin when our attention remains fixed upon obeying it (4-6, 31)
  4. Generates heartfelt prayer and praise to God (7, 12, 48, 62, 64, 108, 146)
  5. Cultivates trust in God’s help and presence (8, 141, 150-151, 173-174)
  6. Keeps the young heart pure (9)
  7. Prevents sinning when we treasure it (11, 101, 133)
  8. Breeds an urgency to proclaim and teach it (13)
  9. Produces godly delight in eternal riches more than the abundance of temporal things (14, 16, 35-36, 72, 103, 127)
  10. Reveals the ways of God (15)
  11. Feeds humility in prayer and a longing for God’s blessing (17, 26, 56, 58, 132, 135)
  12. Gives insight into that which is truly spiritual, thus leading to a continuous cycle of growth (18)
  13. Guides our earthly pilgrimage, lighting our way in this darkened world (19, 176)
  14. Generates a never-ending longing for itself (20, 64)
  15. Rebukes the insolent and arrogant (21)
  16. Removes scorn and contempt (22)
  17. Gives confidence and perseverance in the face of enemies who plot against us (23, 51, 53, 61, 69-70, 78, 85-87, 94-95, 98, 110, 115, 121-122, 134, 150-151, 157-158, 161)
  18. Counsels us (24)
  19. Renews our soul when we are in the dust of despair (25)
  20. Gives understanding of the ways of the Creator (27, 73)
  21. Encourages meditation on the works of God (27)
  22. Strengthens our hearts when they are overcome by grief (28)
  23. Puts false ways away from us (29, 163)
  24. Explains “the way of faithfulness” (30)
  25. Enlarges our heart for God to run the race of obedience (32, 34, 57, 106, 112, 17-168)
  26. Nourishes perseverance of faith to the end (33, 112)
  27. Turns our eyes from worthless things and leads us to true life (37)
  28. Nurtures the fear of the Lord (79, 116, 120)
  29. Prevents reproach (39)
  30. Reveals the righteousness that leads to life (40, 156)
  31. Assures us of the promise of salvation (41, 94, 81-82, 123, 166)
  32. Answers our accusers (42, 78, 121-122)
  33. Generates hope (43, 49, 74, 147, 166)
  34. Leads to walking “in a wide place” (44-45)
  35. Emboldens our witness (46-47)
  36. Comforts us in our affliction ((50, 52, 75-76, 82-84, 141, 143, 170)
  37. Becomes the believer’s song for the earthly journey (54, 172)
  38. Reminds us of who God really is, what He is like, and of His steadfast love—His “name” (55, 76, 88, 124, 159)
  39. Cultivates a growing satisfaction in God (57)
  40. Renews our mind, leading to repentance from sin and obedience to God (59-60)
  41. Establishes the sphere of godly friendships (63)
  42. Describes how the Lord always does well with us (65)
  43. Teaches us good judgment and knowledge (66)
  44. Opens our spiritual eyes to God’s goodness and His good purposes for our affliction (67-68, 71, 75)
  45. Reveals the mercy of God, dispensing it to our needy souls (77, 156)
  46. Provides the basis for crying out to God for justice (84-86, 118-119, 126, 136, 139, 149)
  47. Stands forever; it never fails as an enduring testimony to God’s faithfulness ((89-91, 111a, 142, 144, 152, 160)
  48. Strengthens the inner man in times of affliction (92, 107, 159)
  49. Gives spiritual life to the soul (93)
  50. Provides the standard of perfection (96)
  51. Imparts wisdom and spiritual understanding (97-100, 125, 130, 169)
  52. Teaches us the path of God (102)
  53. Feeds and satisfies spiritual appetites (103, 131)
  54. Engenders hatred for sin (104, 113, 128, 163)
  55. Lights our way in this darkened world (105)
  56. Produces joy in the heart (111, 143, 162)
  57. Provides a refuge when attacked by evildoers (114-115, 117, 139, 153-155, 161)
  58. Renews the longing to obey God (129)
  59. Defines the righteousness of God (137-138, 142)
  60. Brings peace to the troubled soul (165)

Once you savor Psalm 119, you will find yourself returning there throughout your spiritual pilgrimage. He who truly tastes the food of the Word returns to its table, habitually.

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March 9, 2015
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The Test of Trials – Part 2

Nothing tests the sincerity of the heart motives behind our prayers like trials do. Why is that? Trials are custom-designed by God to reveal to us the idolatry that remains in our hearts, not so that He may gleefully watch us suffer or, God forbid, punish us for something Christ already sufficiently paid for, but in order that we may more deeply experience the transforming power of His grace toward Christ-likeness. Let’s face it: When we suffer, we too often pray in very selfish ways. Most commonly, we ask God to deliver us from our trial—to make life easier. But what if easier does not lead to true growth?

In the last post, we thought about God’s gracious purpose in our trials, that is, to test our faith in order that we may grow in the endurance that characterizes spiritual maturity. This is the reason we should obey the command to rejoice when we encounter various trials. When you and I disobey God’s command to rejoice then we work against the deeper works that the Spirit seeks to accomplish within us.

As already stated, another benefit of trials is their unique ability to test our prayers. The way we pray in the midst of suffering reveals our heart’s desires, whether we are more concerned with God’s glory or our own “comfortable life.”

TRIALS TEST OUR PRAYERS (vv. 5-8)

Trials test our faith by either moving us closer to dependence on God, demonstrated by submissive prayer, or further from God by feeding our innate prideful independence and sense of self-sufficiency. Listen to how James exhorts us:

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.

  • The promise (v. 5)

God’s promise to us is that He will give us wisdom in our times of trial. And He will not give it stingily, but generously and without reproach. Wisdom is “for the asking.” The phrase “if any of you lacks” indicates that James rightly assumes that we need wisdom, “we need God’s wisdom so that our trials will not be wasted” (James: Wisdom for the Community by Christopher W. Morgan and B. Dale Ellenburg).

God gives to us generously, that is, James calls God the constantly giving God. And when God gives His wisdom, He does it “without reproach,” without scolding us for previous sins, failures, or weaknesses. God does not give like we sometimes give. Sometimes we may say, “Well, what happened to the money that I gave you last time? Well, I guess I’ll have to give you more. But remember, don’t mess up this time.” God is not that way. When we ask for wisdom, it is as if He has been waiting to give it to us all along. All we have to do is ask for it.

When a believer asks God for wisdom in trial, that wisdom “will be given him.” The promise is clear: Ask the constantly-giving God for wisdom and He will give it to you. King Solomon prayed for wisdom and God answered by giving it to him.

It was pleasing in the sight of the Lord that Solomon had asked this thing. God said to him, “Because you have asked this thing and have not asked for yourself long life, nor have asked riches for yourself, nor have you asked for the life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself discernment to understand justice, behold, I have done according to your words. Behold, I have given you a wise and discerning heart, so that there has been no one like you before you, nor shall one like you arise after you” (1 Kings 3:10-12).

God’s wisdom is truly there “for the asking.”

  • The prerequisite (vv. 6a)

However, James makes it clear that there is a prerequisite to receiving God’s wisdom: “But he must ask in faith without any doubting.” In other words, we must keep on asking, not doubting—we must persevere in prayer instead of giving up the first time God does not give us a microwave answer.

Edmond Hiebert defines this kind of faith as “the wholehearted attitude of a full and unquestioning committal to and dependence upon God, as He has revealed Himself to us in Christ Jesus. It is the proper human response to the goodness of God.” This is the faith of the woman with the twelve-year hemorrhage who pressed through the crowds just to touch the hem of Jesus’ garment. Her actions were motivated by a simple childlike trust in the goodness of God. And Jesus said to her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace and be healed of your affliction” (Mark 5:34).

This kind of faith is “without any doubting.” It is without the back-and-forth wavering that too often characterizes us.

  • The problem (vv. 6b-8)

This doubting reveals a problem, “for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind.” Adamson says in the New International Commentary on the New Testament, “The doubter is like ‘a sea of waves,’ now wind-driven toward the southeast, and now toward the northwest, with nothing that could sensibly be called progress.”

Verse 7 is a very strong rebuke! “For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord.” When we ask God for wisdom, but do not truly believe He will give it to us, then we are acting double-minded. The picture here is of a mind “so filled with uncertainty and indecision that it cannot make any choice between the alternatives with which it is faced” (Adamson). In Pilgrim’s Progress, John Bunyan calls this man: “Mr. Facing-both-ways.” He is a fence-walker. On one hand he wants to leave the lusts of his flesh, but on the other hand he delights in them so much that he does not want to give them up for God. The prophet Jeremiah reveals that this stems from trusting in ourselves, rather than trusting in God.

Thus says the Lord, “Cursed is the man who trusts in mankind and makes flesh his strength, and whose heart turns away from the Lord. For he will be like a bush in the desert and will not see when prosperity comes, but will live in stony wastes in the wilderness, a land of salt without inhabitant. Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord and whose trust is the Lord. For he will be like a tree planted by the water, that extends its roots by a stream and will not fear when the heat comes; but its leaves will be green, and it will not be anxious in a year of drought nor cease to yield fruit.” (Jeremiah 17:5-8)

Trials have a way of testing our prayers to reveal whether we simply want relief from suffering or the more valuable possession of wisdom leading to spiritual growth toward maturity in Christ.

APPLICATION QUESTIONS

  • What trial is God taking you through right now?
  • Have you been responding in a godly manner?
  • If not, confess your sinful response(s) to God and receive His generous forgiveness.
  • How are you praying?
  • What does the way you pray reveal about your heart?
  • Are you asking God for His generous wisdom, or are you doubting Him?
  • Talk to the Lord about these things.
  • Ask Him to give you a heart to trust Him.

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